1) When I was planning my wedding I found that I became dependant on lists, they were indispensable. It was really helpful having lists from favourite venues and prices, the best wedding dress shops in the area, weekly checklists of things to be sourced and paid for and in season flowers. As you work on each section of your wedding plan, having the lists to refer back to is invaluable and saves time revisiting (and trying remember) previous ideas.
2) Unless you have a clear idea of theme, or favourite flowers or era it seems it’s a case of going through all available magazines, blogs, wedding fairs and websites for ideas. This can be not only confusing but also overwhelming!
3) There are many resources available for advice and up to date themes.
Just for starters have a look at: